Can Life Be More Beautiful?

Having bad days, then good days

Days filled with blissful droplets, followed by the bleak thunders

Days you get it all, Days when everything is just an empty shell

Can life be more beautiful?

There is always a scope of new life in you, There is always things you overlooked before

After sunsets, comes the sunrise, filled with hopes of second chances

After a thunderstorms, comes a chilly breeze, but the comfort of the after-math is what that

keeps you sane

Can life be more beautiful?

Following the passions you never knew, you have been carrying deep inside

Making efforts with all your might to live the life you have always wanted to

A blistering joy, your eyes sparkling, you can see yourself doing the things you like doing

Can life be more beautiful?

One day you feel stuck, and next day life is opening doors to new possibilities..

Can life be more beautiful?

Evolution is Beautiful!

 

People who has figured it out all… are they even real??

We don’t know what our lives are gonna get after few years, in my case after few days. I am always at the verge of change. Life is too short. There are too many things i want to try and explore. Too many challenges I need to overcome. My life is not simple neither am I. But whose is?

Few months back, I felt as if I had lost the track and couldn’t make any sense of anything. But I tried to look for directions anyways, because giving up was never an option. God never let me do it, so how could I have done that to myself.. If i have been able to survive so far, then I sure can overcome more, than i can ever imagine. We never get what we want handed on a plate, but baby steps eventually helps us through. I may have been late, but I’m so glad i didn’t let myself keep standing where I started my journey from.

 

 

It’s amazing how time can contribute so much in our evolution. I am walking on a road where every now and then people throw stones at me and try to cut away my wings. But how could I stop…

When I exactly know that this is the only way out. The only path that could take me to the very place where I might meet myself one day!

Its all about the doors you opened and the ones you didn’t

Every thought we have, every decision we make shapes up how our lives are gonna get. It’s up to us to either linger somewhere stagnant and deadly or move to someplace vigorous and flourishing.

“The doors we open and close each day decides the lives we live.” – Flora Whittemore

Anything that affects you has a control over you, it could either be a thing, a person, an opportunity or a situation you’re dealing with etc. As they say, the things you allow are the things that will continue.. It’s basically you, who give them/it the permission to either flourish you or destroy you. So if anything bad happens to you, its nobody’s but your fault, because it was you who practically handed them with the axe to hit you. Thus don’t be naive, learn from the mistakes; not only from the ones you make but also from the others’.

Picking up from the experience I have realized that there’s no situation in the world that we can’t solve by ourselves. If one door closes to us, then may be its for the best and there is always, always an another door that’s has been awaiting for us to walk through. We’re never completely trapped, it can’t be, it’s just a temporary state of mind.

Live with Purpose

Everyday, we’re given a chance by God to live a better today than yesterday and create an better and beautiful tomorrow than today. Yes, past gave us a lot to ponder upon, but if its named as past, then its called it for a reason right?

You only live once, i used to say… but no that’s wrong, you live everyday, you die only once!!

Live with a purpose then; create short term goals, say weekly or monthly, and work hard each day of it to achieve those goals, you might not get it on your first shot, might not on your second shot too, but eventually on some day, in some part of the week of some month, you’ll finally make it happen. But just don’t give up, it’s not an option anymore, because if you gave up today, it’ll haunt you forever, and you’ll end up doubting yourself for the rest of your life.

Aftershocks of calamities : Eating disorders?

During times of crisis, we often react differently. Things we really don’t care about affecting us at that time, creates a huge difference in our lives. Continuous episodes of worry and lonesome often occurs and leads to anxiety, stress, depression and in some cases eating disorders.

Eating disorders have become one of the serious concerns in most of the countries. Most of the people suffering from it doesn’t even comprehend that this issue needs to be addressed on a very serious note. Eating disorders like Anorexia nervosa, Bulimia nervosa, Binge eating disorder, and OSFED etc. happens then and without even realizing it, there we are, captured by something really stupid and lethal.

Some features of eating disorders

Anorexia nervosa

• Distorted body image and obsessive fear of gaining weight.
• Extremely limited food intake and/ or increased levels of exercise.
• Can lead to a dangerously low body weight, malnutrition and starvation.

Bulimia nervosa

• Often starts with dieting to lose weight.
• Binge eating followed by vomiting, fasting, overexercising, or using laxatives/diuretics as a means of purging.
• The binge/purge/exercise cycle can become increasingly compulsive and uncontrollable over time.

Things will find its way…eventually!

Life has been showing me various kinds of colours, some of which are pretty cool, refreshing and attractive; making me see the world differently; captivating me in its charm, luring & bewitching me to every kind of possibility out there, but ironically on the other hand its doing exactly the opposite. With beauty and glamour also came the darkest
of all, the elements of horror and misery. It made me shiver, scared, confused, tired and anxious. I happened to see the facets of life where there is no array of light, no pats of comfort on my back, no sign of peace anywhere close, no traces of hope but instead only a dark tunnel which seems to trap me so ruggedly that no matter how much i try, i just cant’t get rid of it.

Bliss comes only after so many challenges.

Have i lost myself? or have i found myself even better? Is it for the betterment or is it some kind of life lessons that i need to be taught? happened to be the questions that i ask myself everyday, every single day. There has been a tremendous amount of confusion of what should be and what should not. I wonder why.. When did life become so confusing? Now this is called complicated!

Challenges are what makes life interesting

Life will never be the same

I happened to experience a thing that i never expected or thought would happen. It feels like the roof of my house has gone forever, like there are empty walls standing vulnerable on its own. The silence is scaring me..its like a storm is about to come. I seek refuge in the mercy of Allah.

I always tried to be strong and be steadfast, people and life taught me to be that way anyway…because you know there is no other way round, if you want to live…survive and stay alive inside out that’s the only thing that can help you. But this time, its like a silence has taken place inside..something is hollow inside. Its difficult to get normal back again…nothing will remain the same anymore. People seem more scary than ever. Every happiness will be incomplete from now on.

Life goes on as it always does. It waits for nobody. Someday am gonna leave too. That’s the ultimate cycle of nature. But it hurts when you are left behind to fight life battles, its like being exposed to monsters.

Hope will get you through

Sometimes life become very monotonous, even though everything seems to be fine, but still it doesn’t look good. You feel like something is missing, as if it shouldn’t be this way. What’s the piece of the puzzle that is missing? Everything looks so gloomy, out of order..What happened? why life turned out blue all of a sudden? Who has the answer to this mystery..You ask yourself this question..over..and over again. You keep on repeating where you turned wrong, why the picture is not clear. It turns out to be a depressive interrogation within yourself. You start torturing yourself unconsciously, becoming  the enemy to your soul, your spirit. You don’t even know it, and you are captured by abysmal depression, one minute you are alright and the other second you are drowning in the deepest darkness of your mind.

Thinking that you are trapped and nothing can be done of you is one answer. But on the other side, saying that it will pass and i will get through it, i will be better soon is another answer. Which option will you select to get past your bad day? Hope seems like a light rescuing us in every darkness, only and only if you are willing to get hold of it. This thing is often underrated, but without being biased, this is the answer to every problem, every bad time. This is the answer! Everyone of us has went through several ups and downs in our lives. What’s your approach of overcoming those days. What do you suggest?

Life is either a Daring Adventure or Nothing at All!! (Helen Keller)

Usually most of the people fail to recognize the capabilities they pertain, and often reject the opportunities coming on their doorstep thinking that

its not my type, or am not good enough for it..!

But how will you know that before you even try it???

This is the hell of a question that everyone of us should think about before sending back the good things that comes to us.

Think about it this way; by only saying yes you can do something that you weren’t sure about before, you can explore new things about the world and yourselves, you will know you have or not have it in you, or how can i achieve it… it will take you to the period where you start to discover yourselves asking yourself,

Where do my heart take me, what does it want?

I didn’t know i liked this thing so much,

I am gonna work so hard and achieve so much more,

Hey i can do it, just need a little boost up, just need some practice…etc.

Every choice we make takes us to every different path, our choices today affect the consequences tomorrow. But the thing is you need to make some action, that is a must do. Don’t make the train wait for you, its not gonna stop buddy.., if you won’t pick it up, you might keep standing over there for the rest of your life and the opportunity will pick someone else like you, someone who had the courage to try!

Life is a one time offer, use it well – unknown

Say yes to  opportunities, its better to try and fail than to never try at all.

Be the heroine of your life, not the victim

Source: Elleuk

Its your life so better live the way you want to live it…don’t let others take away this right from you. Its always important to be kind..of course with the people around you, but in my opinion more important is to be with your own selves. We often let the people to be in charge of our lives, and those who don’t even care about us affect our choices, happiness and decisions. Its not worth it you know. Because one day they will pass on you and get another toy or perhaps live their lives as they want to and then you will be like..

ohhh..i should have spoken for myself. I should have taken control. I should have been strong…i should have..

So unless its too late stand for yourself, be your own hero not the victim and be kind to your souls, you are not perfect but hey nobody is perfect.

Serendipity. I met life

Once in a while every other person imprisons him or her self within the confines that he or she creates in their minds, they start believing the things that were never there, but only were created in their heads.

Confidence is silent, insecurities are loud – Unknown

All my life i was becoming that person by every passing day.

I used to believe all the crap people said about or thought of me, it was like my insecurities will kill me one day, i thought i would never be able to breath again, when opened..my eyes could see nothing…the road looked as if it has no ending, my soul seemed captured, eventually i got lost. But then serendipity met me.

To love beauty is to see light – Victor Hugo

I was blessed with something that i still don’t believe actually happened!! and it was absolutely and truly amazing. That was the time when despite of my life being upside down i was miraculously able to breath. Destiny smiled at me, nature winked at me, beauty talked to me, winds and i played, oceans rejoiced along me and everything was just like a magic.

Sometimes a dream that you never actually saw do come true telling you YEAH girl you deserve it!!

God saved me from myself. He held my hand and promised never to let go. It was a time as if a magnetic charcoal was inside my brain picking up all the impurities my soul contained. I was set free. The time i went through made me realize how much i have been missing out in life, how i was so much more than i or anybody else ever thought of me.

Chaos taught me the true value of peace. A couple of lessons learned. I promised myself to respect every good thing coming on my way.

Its good to feel good about yourself, its liberating.

Every colour of life is beautiful. The key is to keep a balance!

There is no such thing called life if it doesn’t have any ups and downs in it. These are meant to be, because if it wasn’t for these, we would never have been able to learn the true value of life given to us.

Certainly every person in his or her life faces various changes of hearts, tastes and situations. There are times when everything seems so perfect and peaceful as if its the cool breeze after a peaceful rain while sometimes it feels like a bed of thorns, either way this is life, just like the piano keys are in white and black, rainbow comes with seven different shades of beauty, happiness comes after sadness, everything in life is a combination of pretties and uglies and it would be invaluable if we hadn’t had experienced the odd against the rights. So its just the part of the game where we are meant to be. 

Determination to keep going

We often look for several things to give us hope and motivation for us to keep going. For some its a morning walk, cooking, aerobics, photography, poetry, blogging, reading, dance, music or could even be a song. Things that we enjoy the most help us even if we are sick or at our lowest, these help us stand up with all the energy we carry inside and work things out just like we could have done these in other favourable scenarios. That’s the fundamental rule actually to never give up either you can do it or not, but if you simply give it a try you will reach somewhere at least, instead of just lying around and getting wasted. That somewhere will then eventually guide us to new paths and new journeys that we never thought of before, and giving them even a single attempt will just be enough to bring a  change. Change is necessary in almost every stage of life, it helps us uncover different aspects of lives; about our surroundings, ourselves, people around us…helps us grow. 

Don’t Stay Stuck

So true. A huge amount of courage is needed though to run back your mind onto the right road.